Banky W, ever the romantic and eloquent wordsmith, posted a touching message on Instagram accompanied by stunning photos of the couple through the years. In his signature poetic style, he poured out his heart, reflecting on eight years of marriage while looking forward to a lifetime more. “8 years down, forever to go. So much more in love, so much room to grow,” he wrote, capturing the essence of a marriage that has not only endured but continues to flourish.
The post quickly went viral, with thousands of fans, fellow celebrities, and well-wishers flooding the comment section with congratulatory messages. Many praised the couple’s authenticity, consistency, and the way they consistently uplift each other in public and private.
One of the most striking parts of Banky W’s anniversary message was his subtle response to early doubters of their union. He revealed that someone had once boldly predicted their marriage would collapse within months, saying, “I give them 6 months.” Eight years later, Banky W’s response was both graceful and powerful: “Little did they know… the bond is unbreakable when the cord is three-fold.” The phrase is a clear reference to the biblical principle in Ecclesiastes 4:12 — “A triple-braided cord is not easily broken” — emphasizing that their marriage is strengthened by their shared faith in God.
This spiritual foundation has been a recurring theme in the Wellingtons’ love story. From their whirlwind romance that began on social media to their glamorous 2017 wedding events — which included a star-studded traditional ceremony in Lagos and a fairytale white wedding in Cape Town, South Africa — the couple has never shied away from crediting divine orchestration for bringing them together and keeping them strong.
In his tribute, Banky W affectionately referred to Adesua as his “wife, baby mama, lover, best friend, and partner in everything.” The term “baby mama” was a sweet nod to their journey into parenthood. The couple welcomed their first child, a son named Zaiah, in 2021, after quietly battling fertility challenges — a season they have spoken about with transparency and grace. Adesua, in particular, has been vocal about the emotional toll of waiting to conceive, and their testimony of eventually becoming parents has inspired many couples facing similar struggles.
Adesua also shared her own anniversary post, featuring a loving video montage of tender moments with her husband. Though more reserved in expression compared to Banky’s poetic outpouring, her caption was filled with deep emotion: “8 years of doing life with my favorite human. I love you more than words can ever say. Happy anniversary, my love.” She accompanied the post with a series of heart and infinity emojis, symbolizing the eternal nature of their commitment.
Since tying the knot in 2017, Banky W and Adesua have continued to thrive both individually and as a couple. Banky has ventured deeper into politics, filmmaking, and mentorship, while Adesua has solidified her place as one of Nollywood’s leading actresses, earning critical acclaim for roles in films like The Wedding Party, King of Boys, and Gangs of Lagos. Despite their demanding careers, they have consistently prioritized their marriage and family, often sharing glimpses of date nights, family vacations, and simple moments of joy at home.
Their love story remains a beacon of hope in an industry often plagued by scandal and short-lived relationships. Fans frequently cite them as proof that true love, mutual respect, and shared values can withstand the pressures of fame. Over the years, they have weathered rumors, intrusive speculation, and the natural challenges of marriage — yet each anniversary seems to reveal a couple more in love than the year before.
As Banky W aptly concluded in his post, their finish line is not measured in years but in eternity. “To my Susu… thank you for saying yes, thank you for choosing us every day, thank you for being the best part of my life. Here’s to forever, baby.” With eight years behind them and a lifetime of love ahead, Banky W and Adesua Etomi-Wellington continue to set the standard for what a God-centered, purpose-driven, and joy-filled marriage can look like — not just in entertainment circles, but for millions who follow their journey.
Here’s to many more decades of love, laughter, growth, and unbreakable bonds for one of Africa’s most beloved couples. Happy 8th wedding anniversary, Mr. and Mrs. Wellington!
