Tatyana Remley, a 44- or 45-year-old California equestrian and socialite known for her 2023 conviction in a murder-for-hire plot against her estranged husband, died by suicide on December 18, 2025, outside a popular bar in San Diego's Little Italy district. The San Diego County Medical Examiner's Office ruled her death a suicide caused by a self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head.
The incident occurred shortly before 9 p.m. outside the Princess Pub & Grille in the bustling Piazza della Famiglia area. Witnesses reported hearing gunshots, with some accounts describing Remley firing a shot into the air before turning the firearm on herself. A firearm was recovered at the scene, and she was pronounced dead at 9:02 p.m. The San Diego Police Department confirmed they were investigating a death appearing to be a suicide but did not initially release her name.
Hours before her death, Remley FaceTimed her estranged husband, Mark Remley, from a bathroom stall at the bar. According to Mark, she complained about a man she was with, saying, "I'm with this guy and he's being a jerk." He offered to call for help or send assistance, but she declined, stating she was fine and ending the call. The next day, after not hearing from her, Mark filed a missing person report, only to be informed by authorities of her death.
Mark Remley, a tech entrepreneur and real estate investor, expressed shock and grief in interviews. He told reporters he had tried multiple times to get her mental health support during their marriage, noting her struggles but saying he "did not see this coming." Despite the acrimonious history—including her attempt to have him killed—the couple had remained in intermittent contact and were nearing a divorce settlement.
Remley's life had been marked by high-profile drama. She and Mark met around 2010 in an affluent San Diego neighborhood and married in 2011. They lived lavishly, funded by Mark's reported $30 million fortune from real estate and inheritance. The couple owned mansions in Del Mar, California, and Hawaii, indulged in luxury cars, and pursued extravagant ventures. Notably, in 2012, they produced "Valitar," a multimillion-dollar equestrian acrobatics show at the Del Mar Fairgrounds, which failed spectacularly after just a few performances, leaving unpaid vendors and performers.
Their lifestyle also included appearances on the Showtime docuseries "Naked SNCTM," which explored an exclusive sex club. In the series, the couple discussed their adventurous sexual life, with Remley describing herself as someone who enjoyed "pushing limits."
The marriage deteriorated amid financial strains and allegations of abuse. Remley filed for divorce in 2023, claiming domestic violence, including incidents where Mark allegedly pointed a gun at her or chased her with a knife—claims he denied. In July 2023, a fire damaged their Del Mar mansion, leading to Remley's initial arrest on firearms charges after deputies found guns and ammunition at the scene.
The murder-for-hire plot unfolded shortly after. Authorities alleged Remley approached a mutual acquaintance offering $2 million to kill Mark, prompting a sting operation. On August 2, 2023, she met an undercover detective at a Starbucks, providing details on how she wanted the murder carried out and bringing cash as a down payment along with three firearms. She was arrested and charged with solicitation of murder, carrying a concealed weapon, and possessing a loaded firearm in public.
Remley pleaded guilty in late 2023 and was sentenced to three years and eight months in prison. However, she served only about one year, released early in January 2025. Post-release, her behavior was described as erratic; she posted cryptic social media content about recovery and suicide prevention, launched an OnlyFans account, claimed to be writing a memoir, and was reportedly filming a documentary.
In September 2025, Mark secretly recorded conversations where Remley allegedly admitted to starting the 2023 mansion fire. She was rearrested on arson charges and released on bail, awaiting trial scheduled for March 2026. Remley maintained her innocence in the arson case and had previously denied aspects of the murder-for-hire plot in depositions, despite her guilty plea.
A source close to the couple indicated their relationship remained on-again, off-again, with reports of attempted reconciliation even after the criminal charges. Remley had two children from a previous marriage, and her lavish spending—once reportedly $50,000 monthly—was cited in court filings as a point of contention during the divorce.
Her death has closed a tumultuous chapter that captivated media for years, highlighting issues of wealth, mental health, and domestic turmoil. Mark questioned how, as a convicted felon on probation and facing new charges, she obtained a firearm. Community reactions in San Diego expressed shock at the public nature of the suicide in a crowded area.
If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, help is available through the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline by calling or texting 988.
