A 60-year-old Nigerian woman, Doyinsola A. IIori, has opened up about the painful aftermath of her failed marriage, disclosing that her ex-husband has gone on to marry five different women in the ten years since he abruptly left her and their four children. The revelation came in a candid and emotionally charged Facebook post on Tuesday, December 2, 2025, as she reacted to the widely publicized domestic dispute between legendary Nigerian singer Innocent "2Baba" Idibia (popularly known as Tuface or 2Face) and his wife, Annie Idibia, involving alleged infidelity and the involvement of another woman, Natasha.
Doyinsola’s post, written in a blend of English and Nigerian Pidgin that resonated deeply with many online readers, served as both personal catharsis and social commentary on the patterns she believes many women experience when men walk away from long-term relationships. She painted a vivid picture of abandonment, regret, and the futile search for "better" partners that often leaves men cycling through relationships that pale in comparison to what they left behind.
Recounting her own story, the mother of four explained that she had once contemplated leaving the marriage herself due to persistent disputes and her husband’s infidelity. For the sake of their children, however, she chose to stay in what she described as a "loveless relationship," enduring the emotional toll in silence. When her husband eventually decided to end the union, he did so unilaterally and without regard for the family’s well-being. Doyinsola said she pleaded with him to consider the impact the divorce would have on their children, only to be met with a chilling response: he told the kids that his personal happiness mattered more than their stability and simply walked away.
“On Tuface, I dare to say, ‘tueh...’” she wrote, expressing disdain for men who destroy families in pursuit of fleeting joy. “Most times for us women, including my humble self, when the men leave us—I mean our husbands and boyfriends—they dump us for the worst version of us.”
She went on to describe a common pattern: men often leave in dramatic, destructive fashion, refusing to acknowledge their mistakes out of pride or shame. Instead, they attempt to replace their ex-wives with women who, in Doyinsola’s view, never measure up. “By the time this reality hits them, shame would not let them admit to their colossal error,” she observed. “You know how men leave now, they blow everything to smithereens. Wọ́n á ti balẹ̀ jẹ́ kọjá sorry.”
In her own case, the proof was stark and undeniable. After fifteen years of marriage, her husband absconded, divorced her, and within the subsequent decade had walked down the aisle five separate times. “I don’t know about yours o, but mine has married 5 other women in 10 years, post absconding and divorce,” she declared. “If any of them better pass me, he for don stop. I ṣáà did 15 years before he comot. Married 5 different women in 10 years!!! Na 7 he dey go.”
With dark humor, she predicted he was on track for a seventh marriage and joked about taking bets on it. She expressed pity not for the ex-husband, but for the children caught in the revolving door of new stepmothers. “The 7 sef, na him children I pity, otherwise, he for change wife till he kpai at any age ni,” she wrote—implying he would keep swapping wives until the day he died if consequences for the kids weren’t a factor.
Doyinsola also took a pointed jab at 2Face Idibia’s family and supporters who had previously criticized Annie Idibia and celebrated the rumored new woman, Natasha. “PS: Tuface dey kraze, he no well. Na laff Annie suppose dey laff him family now. Sebi na she, dem say she no good, and dem no like. Make dem dey manage Natasha now nàù,” she quipped, suggesting that those who once maligned Annie should now deal with the consequences of the singer’s choices.
She drew a parallel to her own experience, recalling how her ex-husband’s family had quickly soured on one of his new wives. Just two years after he married “that dead lady” (a derogatory phrase she used), they reportedly began complaining that the new marriage could never compare to the one he had left behind: “ìgbà Iya Bọbọ gan o le t’eyii”—a Yoruba expression meaning the era of the children’s real mother could never be matched.
The post struck a chord across Nigerian social media, sparking thousands of reactions, shares, and comments from women who shared similar stories of being discarded only for their ex-partners to struggle in subsequent relationships. Many praised Doyinsola’s courage and unfiltered honesty, while others used the opportunity to discuss broader issues of infidelity, the emotional labor women invest in marriages, and society’s tendency to blame wives when men stray.
At its core, Doyinsola’s message was a powerful indictment of a recurring narrative: men often leave stable, long-suffering partners in search of something “better,” only to discover—too late and too proudly to admit—that they had already had the best. Ten years and five marriages later, her ex-husband’s restless journey appears to validate her assertion that men frequently “dump us for the worst version of us.”
As 2025 draws to a close, Doyinsola A. IIori’s viral testimony has reignited conversations about resilience, self-worth, and the quiet victories of women who rebuild their lives after being abandoned. For many, her words are not just a personal story—they are a mirror reflecting a painful but all-too-familiar reality in modern relationships.
